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Note: All married women and men must read this post..!!!
The Qur'an has also told husband and wife to dress for each other.
The creator of the universe has placed the attraction for each
other in men and to fulfill this natural need, religion has given a beautiful
relationship like marriage to man.
So that opposite sex attraction,
What is naturally present in man can be separated from malignity.
Marriage is not only a necessity of a civilized society but it is also a fact
of life.
Marriage is the beginning of a new life, a new era.
Yes, it is definitely difficult to come into one's life after
spending a lifetime in your own way and involve them in your decisions every
moment. But this is the requirement of this relationship.
Life partner is such a person who is called love, friendship,
loyalty, etc. This relationship grows with small desires. If this good
relationship is taken care of from the first day, then there is no doubt
That the feeling of freshness of the early days can be maintained
till the last breath.
Both husband and wife live in the same environment. They spend a
lot of time in the same house rather in the same room. As the race of life
progresses, these two people living together in the same room gradually become
distant from each other. There seems to be no disagreement, but a chilling
atmosphere prevails. Both sides discuss every topic except themselves, but
forget their own love. And so this seemingly strong relationship becomes
fragile with time and circumstances. In some situations, there is a fear of
such damage that cannot be repaired.
Despite all these things, it cannot be said that love is over. Many
people hear this sentence that "now where is the love of the past"
although it is not correct to think like that. It is very easy to maintain the
color of this relationship with a little awareness.
First of all, it is important to express every emotion whether it
is love, anger or resentment. To make a marriage work, love and expressing it
to your life partner is a basic condition. Expression of love and affection is
a weapon, which binds the partner to smile despite all the resentment.
There is no single way to express love, it depends on the harmony
and the nature of the relationship. If someone desires words, a small gift will
make someone happy. One considers support for one's decision to be an
expression of love. In fact, the expression of love indicates that you are not
only ready to cooperate with your life partner, but also that you are happy and
comfortable with it. This feeling brings both of them closer to each other.
In our country, it is generally expected that the expression of
love should come from the husband. As far as women are concerned, she also
expresses but her style is different. She expresses it through her gait, narrow
manner, clothes, eyes and conversational style. Rather, sometimes a woman
limits her expression to gestures. Both parties want to express their love and
acknowledge their importance. Then there is the fact that language alone is not
enough. This has to be proved practically. Let it be said in tongues that you
are fully aware of every sorrow and trouble of your spouse, but if he ever fell
ill and you did not ask about him, your words would be lifeless. In practice,
it is important to prove to the opposite sex that their desires and sufferings
are all important.
While expressing love is important, expressing anger and resentment
is also extremely important. It is wrong to keep your emotions bottled up
inside and not to voice your complaints. If the aggrieved party remains silent,
the matter will worsen. In case of non-reconciliation after the quarrel, the
anger is suppressed and thus the lava begins to boil. Instead of remaining
silent in the face of unjustified behavior or misbehavior, trying to resolve
differences through dialogue breathes new life into the relationship.
In our new generation, there is an increasing trend of delay in
having children after marriage. This is also a major reason for disagreement. A
child is a seed that protects the relationship by becoming a tree of love
between a man and a woman. A functioning marriage provides the foundation for a
functioning offspring.
Therefore, after marriage, the husband and wife should decide to
have children. Children born in the early years of marriage do not allow
parents to grow old quickly. Not only does it help them grow faster, but it
also creates a stronger bond between parents. The lives of people who
deliberately do not have children are often seen as restless. At least that's
how it is with us.
Expression of love, resentment, children, where all these aspects
make this relationship stronger and stronger, the importance of marital
relationship cannot be denied. Marital relationship is a hidden corner of human
need. The relationship between husband and wife should not be considered as a
tool for the satisfaction of animal feelings but it is a blessed gift of life.
It is not only a physical and social necessity but also essential for the
establishment of spiritual health.
Just think about it. When a man and a woman get married, it is not
just a relationship between two people, but a family.
The foundation is also formed.
However, the problem is that the battle of rights and duties starts
from the first day.
The relationship between husband and wife is defined by the word
dress, so why not make your dress dignified for yourself.
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